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Channel on Relationships: We come together with another to learn about who we are as an individual.

"Relationships" - A Channeled Reading from Laura Mirante 1-19-16

It is an educational opportunity for both of you and this is what life is all about.

So when you think in terms of relationships you think in terms of the idealistic interpretation of what they were interpreted to be by those that came before you and those that are still trying to figure them out.

What we would say to you with all that we are is throw those interpretations of relationships away. Remove them from your mind.

Release yourself from their grip and don't allow yourself to be distracted by what anybody else thinks relationships should be.

We'll give you the opportunity to see the bigger picture here, to understand what it is relationships are all about and why it is they seem so difficult to human beings.

There are those that we feel these special attractions to - those we feel this deep energetic connection to. So, of course, when something so deep is sparked by something in this physical world the human being feels it, recognizes the connection but doesn't quite understand or interpret it in its most authentic state.

So we take those connections, we take those sparks of recognition, and we build in our mind some interpretation of them.

We have as a collective.

Humanity has defined that spark as being the coming together of soul mates.

Then the fairy tales came; then the ideals were thrown in; then the ideas that it had to be this way or that way and then conditions were placed upon it.

So, you see, this is where the convoluted inclination of the human intellect began to shift the natural flow of the relationship experience.

Let's take two beautiful souls.

Let's imagine that they are existing on this earth-plane together and that they have chosen, as the souls that they are, to use this experience to expand more fully into the soulful awareness available to them in this human experience.

So, they are trying to use the physical world experience to understand how they maneuver through it, as the souls that they are, and where they allow the actual experience to affect their ability to know their truth and to be their truth.

In the beginning the relationship is based purely, souly, innocently on the divine connection that brought you together and that is exciting!

That excitement - ah yes, it is yours but more than you the human, it is the soul's excitement;

the soul's excitement to begin the process of uncovering the layers of misinformation and misinterpretations so that you can get to the core of who you are as the soul that you are.

So, you see, the human being felt the intensity of the relationship on the onset with that initial spark that had you wondering what it was this stirring inside was all about and why this connection had to be explored.

It felt exciting and then all of the logic came in and told you that it is because you have a physical attraction and because we have similar likes and we have a similar sense of what life should be or this or that. There are so many ways the logical mind can attach its interpretations to this divine connection and that's nice for a while. It does allow the human being to just swim in the energy of pure potential that is the bond between them.

But once the mind moves beyond that initial excitement it begins to wander deeper into the core of this connection. It begins to delve into the energies that begin to surface and these energies that begin to surface are the initiation stages of this commitment as souls to grow through this experiential moment in the physical.

This is where the soul begins to take over.

This is where the energetic agreements begin to come forth.

This is where human beings begin to not only show their true colors but discover their true colors.

They discover what it is they keep under the façade of the illusion of perfection, of joy, of happiness and hope.

So, over time, each of you flows more fully into your human definition where at first that spiritual spark lifted you almost ethereally right out of your body so that each of you could only see the beauty of your souls, so you could get past anything in the physical that might offend you.

It is a part of the process.

So now that initial state of spiritual clarity is shifting into a more human energy so that divine spark that reminded you of the connection between you begins to be stretched, begins to get stressed, begins to get covered up under the influence of the human condition in this physical world.

So you feel it and you think, if only I didn't live in this society, if only we didn't have these pressures, if only this or that wasn't affecting us.

Our beliefs stay in that state of constant communing but rather than raise your fist at this life you can come to the realization that a part of this process was to utilize the experience to show you how the inconsistencies of the physical world affect your ability to know your truth, to know the love that exists between you, and to honor the journey that you are on together.

When you hear it like this you think in those terms that say, well then every relationship should be fulfilled.

There should be no divorce. There should be no separation.

There should only be people who stay together and work through the issues because that's the soulful relationship.

No, not so, because there is more than the soul here.

There are two human beings with two egos, two logical minds, and two sets of free will that can choose the direction that this experience takes. That's a part of the growth - acceptance, acceptance and allowance.

In other words, if you both came together to confront your fears then you both came into each other's life to instigate them so that they can surface so you can see them.

Your fears, your doubts, your insecurities, your misinterpretations of life, the belief systems that you were handed that don't fit with who you are as a soul - all of this gets stirred up and all of this is exactly what you requested be stirred up for you.

The same goes for the other. Whatever it is he is dealing with is exactly what he, the soul that he is, knows he must face in order to be an energy of integrity, in order to be the most authentic representation of him.

So you are here in this moment with this other, with this experience, with this connection, with this relationship, with all these doubts, all these fears, all these anxieties and inconsistencies affecting your ability to see each other for who you truly are in this moment, to recognize that you are each lost in your own insecurities.

You are each projecting so much of what you feel inside on the other.

This is the whole purpose and point of human relationships - to use these others as the sounding boards, if you will, of the reflections of our truth as the means to self-awareness.

As you engage these so called difficult situations and life-altering choices or decisions you must pull yourself back from the human that you are and realize that life is an experiential process for the soul and relationships are meant to propel you into a journey of self-exploration.

Now think of that. We come together with another to learn about who we are as an individual.

Here is where it gets good, in these relationships where

you have two beautiful souls looking to inspire each other to grow and expand through this experiential process and then

you have two willing egos that say,

"I'm going to take your hand as we walk through your fear and you are going to take my hand as we walk through my fear and we're going to assist each other in the process.
No, I'm not going to direct you and you are not going to direct me.
I'm going to follow my truth and see where it leads and support you as you follow your truth and see where it leads."

That's the stuff of real soulful, committed experiential processes.

If you want to call them 'relationships' call them relationships but we think you should shift now because "the idea" of a 'relationship' just affects the energy to such an extent that you can no longer see it for what it is.

Let it go!

Release yourself from the idea of being in a relationship.

It is too heavy.

It is too much - the conditions being placed on your ability as souls to explore yourselves through life.

So we go back to the idea that there are two willing souls and two willing human beings.

That doesn't mean it is going to be all rainbows and butterflies.

It means that they have a commitment to work through what it is life brings them with a complete awareness that neither one - neither one - can tell the other what it is they need to do or who it is they need to be.

They each have to figure it out themselves and they each have to support each other on those journeys by being open and non-judgmental, by being committed to allowing one another to have the experiences in life that stir up all of the stuff of this human experience that keeps you from your truth.

Channeled 1-19-16

Laura Mirante

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